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    Is it possible to forgive an infidelity?
    An important aspect of infidelity is the fact that, in general, it is given in secret. Therefore, it usually implies a betrayal of the commitment agreed between the parties involved, the spouses. This is a fundamental element when it comes to breaking the trust on which the relationship is established.
    When an infidelity occurs, the “aggrieved” suffers a deep wound in his self-esteem that will be necessary to heal. One of the most difficult challenges to be exposed will be to forgive what happened, regardless of whether you want to restore the relationship or not.
    What is forgiveness?
    Forgiveness is a process that has healthy effects on the person who forgives, thus promoting their mental health. However, forgiving is a complex matter that will take time, desire to forgive, determination and commitment.
    In this process we will have to change attitudes, thoughts and behaviors. Through this cognitive restructuring, we may be able to reconcile with those feelings that were violated, and return to normal.
    The process of forgiveness after an infidelity
    The first step will be to recognize the damage suffered. It is important not to try to deceive yourself by minimizing what happened, on the contrary, it will be from the importance of the event from which the “offended” will be given the opportunity to forgive.
    In the analysis of what happened it is necessary to understand the circumstances in which infidelity occurs. In this way, we know that external attributions (attributing responsibility to external circumstances to the person), unstable (which vary) and specific (concrete and specific) of infidelity facilitate forgiveness against internal attributions (attributing responsibility to character of the person), stable (that does not change) and global (generalizable) that make it difficult.
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    The second step is to show interest in forgiving what happened, at least as a possibility.
    Misconceptions about the forgiveness process
    For this we will have to analyze and recognize what it means for us to forgive to detect possible thoughts or ideas that can interfere negatively with the forgiveness process. Some of these misconceptions can be:
    1. “Forgiving means forgetting what happened”
    Memory is a brain function that intervenes in all human learning processes. When we learn something, it is not deleted from our "warehouse", we cannot make it disappear. The end is not to forget what happened, the end will be to remember it without harming us.
    2. “Forgiving is synonymous with reconciliation”
    This is one of the most widespread ideas in consultation: "If you do not want to return with me it is because you have not forgiven me, if I had done so we would be together." Forgiveness does not necessarily include restoring the relationship with someone, it is necessary, but not sufficient.
    3. “To forgive is to minimize or justify what happened”
    How many times have we heard phrases of the type: "it is not so much", "try to see the positive", "these things happen", ...? Forgiving does not imply changing the assessment of the fact; so it is very likely that it will always be valued in a negative and unjustifiable way. However, what will change will be that, despite the fact that the assessment of the fact is negative, the attitude towards the “offender” will not imply a desire for revenge or the need to “return the damage caused” in search of justice.
    4. "Forgiveness is a sign of not being valued or of weakness"
    When they hurt us, we learn that it is necessary to protect ourselves from that person who has hurt us. Anger is a defense mechanism that protects us from the other (hate allows me to "control" part of what happened, makes you feel important and restores some of the lost confidence in oneself).
    Changing our thoughts to be able to forgive
    The third step that leads us to forgive, and this happens by changing our behavior (what we do) and accepting suffering and anger. In the case of infidelity, it consists in stopping to make destructive behaviors that are open and explicit (seek revenge or justice, lash out against the “aggressor”, & hellip;) or covert and implicit (wish badly to the aggressor, ruminating about betrayal and damage violated ...).
    The fourth stage involves establishing strategies aimed at self-protection. Forgiving does not mean "blind faith in the other", it precisely implies recognizing that there is no certainty that it will not happen again and that risk is part of what it means to live and share life with another, even if one tries to reduce the probability that To happen again. It is important not to fall into excessive control that leads us to manifest jealous behavior.
    Overcoming a complicated situation
    Forgiving an infidelity, therefore, is possible. However, this will not mean retaking the relationship again, it is a necessary but not sufficient requirement.
    On the other hand, it is important to take time, forgiveness is only possible once we have passed the grieving process that will entail the loss of confidence in both the couple and in oneself, given the devastating effects it has on self-esteem.
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